A good link to a good article on a good site

Pandora's Aquarium is a good helpful site, and another user of the site posted this on twitter. It does explain why people stay when they are being abused, it does help to explain why I stayed when the churchwarden was abusing me. Philip Bailhache has no understanding of vulnerability and abuse, he went to one of the most expensive private schools and has never been vulnerable or needy.

http://www.pandys.org/articles/continuingrelationshipswithabusivefamily.html